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Musing #020: Rope Intentions

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Creado en Miércoles, 01 Febrero 2012 10:31

A questions on "Rope Intentions" asked on a Fetlife thread, coupled with recent experiences have brought me to look back to a previous entry and reflect some more.In my experience, when it is the first time for a nawashi and a bottom to experience a rope scene together, they are both cautious in their approach: the nawashi testing the bottom, and the bottom learning to trust the nawashi. I think this is a very good thing, not only from a safety point of view, but also because it helps create the underling dialogue, so important for a good scene.It makes only sense then that scene gets more fulfilling, the more the nawashi and the bottom know and trust each other.That being said, I think that there are a lot of differences in intentions and results depending whether the scene is a private one, a public one, a show or practice/experimenting, and whether the nawashi and the bottom are new to each other, have a relationship and the type of relationship, and so forth.Personally, even though I said in my previous entry that rope is something I enjoy for myself, I've got to realize that, for as much as I love a rope scene where I'm basically simply folding inside of myself and enjoying the sensations, it is much more fulfilling if I feel and sense that the nawashi is getting what he/she wants out of it as well. There is a degree here as well, but when I feel that their own body reacts through the rope to my own reactions, and that in return direct their movements and what they'll do with the rope, it became really magic: two bundles of energy exchanging it via the rope, feeding and being fed, and in the process creating a new one.I've also had the fortune to witness such rope scene as a spectator, and they leave me totally in awe, goose bumps and mouth agape. And also slightly uncomfortable at times as it can be much more intimate than watching someone having sex.As for tears, they were also mentioned in the opening post of the Fetlife thread, to me, they come from yet another even more primal place: a place of total surrender/control, giving/gratitude, abnegation/power with a underlying vibe of humbleness and pure euphoria that comes from being granted such a gift. A gift that goes both ways.Rope IS truly magic.

Authors: rida

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