shibari: bondage erótico japonés

Why is that there are often many that needs to claim a higher meaning, to attach a noble scope to their desires?
Why is that that very few have the courage to declare that they like xyz because it makes them hard/wet (or their partner hard/wet), feed their ego (their partner ego) or simply it give them a high?

All this need to give a philosophical higher meaning to our basic instincts and desires. All this theorizing on the whys and the meaning of the whys. All this need to feel superior, noble, advanced.

Let's be honest here: we are animals, we like to fuck, we like to have and exercise power (or to feel it/bask in it), we like to have fun.

And there is nothing wrong in having fun just for the sake of it.

(Disclaimer: Understanding ourselves, our desires, our needs, it is actually something I believe it is very valuable, a necessary process to live a fulfilling life. It is the often underling claim that people into BDSM  are somehow evolved being and depository of a superior understanding of sex and relationships that I believe is deluded and down right insulting to the many wonderful 'nilla of this world. )